It feels like my butt is being jackhammered by a giant apple corer. Most here are in relationships and have been for a long time. Please do NOT do anything you are not comfortable with. It is a matter of personal choice: SHE DOES NOT WANT IT RESPECT HER CHOICE. We did the lube and the foreplay and the whole nine yards several times and it was awful.
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He wants anal sex but I do not. I don't want to loose him...
I hate the thought of it, i think it is absolutely disgusting and nasty and there is no reason at all for it. I thought she liked it cause I did ask her if she liked it her answer was that it was like eating very spicy food - can be painful but for some reason you enjoy it. Thank you for clarifying that. She used to give me bjs until I got a vasectomy. You should be willing to do just about anything to please him with a few hard limits like other people being involved, spitting, piss , feces, blood.
If you do not enhoy this type of sex, is not satisfying, but painful and are uncomfortable with the penis back there, you husband is just going to have to get over it and tell him that you don't like it, its painful causing tear, bleeding hemoroids and possible infection. It is her perogative if she wants to try or not and none of us on here have the right to pass our "inconsiderate" judgments onto someone needing advice! I don't understand how a man who loves a woman could do that. I never asked her again. Go buy him one of those Anal pocket pals.
If she wanted to buy a dildo, equivalent to the size of your penis and penetrate you with it, would you be OK with it? He washed then we had sex vaginally and we both enjoyed it a lot. Please, help, what should I do? It's painful and can be damaging. Either way will have a consequence, so you have to choose which one you can live with. Yes he is gay and he is playing you.